This Is Why She Finds It Hard To Trust You

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She finds it hard to trust you because she’s tired of being broken. She’s tired of being hurt over and over and over again when she continuously gives the guys she likes her all. She’s tired of being treated like shit over and over again, because she knows she doesn’t deserves it.

She finds it hard to trust you because some days it seems as if you’re completely, 100% into her, but all the rest of the days you treat her like just another girl. Just another one in the bunch that you seem to talk to on a daily basis. Sometimes you might send her a picture or text message that at first she thinks she’s the only one receiving, but after some thinking, she’s unsure of if she’s the only one who got it, or if 5 other girls received the same thing.

She finds it hard to trust you because of the constant mixed feelings you keep throwing at her. Do you like her, or do you not? Tell her. Don’t keep her guessing.

She finds it hard to trust you because you never commit to your words. You say something will happen, or something will be discussed, but you never follow through. You never have serious conversations with her when you promised you would. Instead, you just want to sit in absolute silence.

She finds it hard to trust you because you’re so back and forth. You can never stick to one thought, one emotion, or one subject at a time. You need to constantly switch back and forth between asshole and genuine human being, and it drives her crazy. She doesn’t know how to react or how to respond because you’re so back and forth with your words and actions.

She finds it hard to trust you because she doesn’t know what you want from her. She doesn’t know your intentions. She doesn’t know if you think of her the same way she thinks of you. She doesn’t know who you think of or who you crave, when you know she’s only thinks of you. She doesn’t know if you want her to be yours, or if you’re just using her until something better comes along.

She finds it hard to trust you because she knows guys like you. She knows your type. She knows that you are a constant heart breaker.

She finds it hard to trust you because you won’t trust her. You won’t open up to her. You won’t be honest with her. And you won’t have in-depth conversations with her. She wants you to be fully open and honest with her, she wants to learn about you. She wants to know what you think, why you think that way, and what made you think that way. She wants to know about your past, present, and what you want your future to look like. She wants to know what you think of her. She wants to know why you’re even here, but you won’t open up.

You won’t tell her anything.

You’re staying quiet which makes her even more scared to trust you.

She finds it hard to trust you, because she knows you’re scared, as well.

If you don’t open up to her soon, if you don’t man up and be honest with her, she will find someone who will. Someone she will be able to trust more easily. Someone who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated.

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